Spanking gone wrong

So, today was the big day.  We started something we never thought we would...  we are parents who spank.  Eric and I are lost on how to discipline Hallie and never wanted to be parents who spank, but we feel like this is the last and final discipline technique that we haven't tried our head strong Hallie.  

We sat her down this morning and explained to her that if she hits mom or dad, disobey's, or tells mom or dad no, she gets a hard spanking on the bum.  She was cool with the idea.  Well, she was awesome today up until about 5pm when Eric got home.  She hit him.  The process began.  When Eric went up stairs he talked to her and then gave her the spanking  (It wasn't soft.  His hand stung.)  And then he waited for her response.  He said it felt like an eternity (probably just a few seconds) and then asked her "Did that hurt?"  She then said "YA!" bounced up started jumping and marching around the room doing the spanking motion to herself and said "All done.  We did it!  YAY!  You gave Hallie a hard spanking on the bum.  You did it dad!  Good job.  Thank you."  I heard this all from the other room.  It was HILARIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Not the response we were looking for.  Eric was the one on the brink of tears.  Didn't phase Hallie... what to do???

Smiley face

Last night Eric and I went on a date to see The Adjustment Bureau (weird movie btw).  We of course had to bring Saige.  Most people have to worry about their 7-week-old baby interrupting the movie with crying... well not us.  I had to keep leaving because Saige was too happy.  She wouldn't stop cooing and gooing.  She is the happiest baby ever, and  I couldn't have asked for a more sweet, peaceful little spirit to come and warm our lives.  I was finally able to catch this million dollar smile on camera.  Gah, I love those dimples!  LOVE YOU SAIGE!!!!!!!

If momma ain't happy...

It's easy to only post about how life is all sunshine and rainbows.  Seems like everyone's life in "Blogland" is perfect.  Well, in case anyone had any doubt about the Hutchison household, we have lots of not so perfect days.  Today was one of those days for me.  You know that saying "If momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy." Well, I always thought that it meant make mom happy if you want to be happy.  I am beginning to realize that what it really means is that if I don't act happy, even when my 2 year old is screaming and throwing toys in a tantrum, my 5 week old is fussy with gas, and my hubby is in bed with a self-inflicted tummy ache, then the our little world will crumble.  When I get upset, they all get worse.  I must stay calm.  I must be patient.  I must be cheerful.  Well, you know what people... sometimes I just want to be grumpy!   Can I get an AMEN!?!  It can be so hard to stay happy and positive some days!!!!!

I am realizing more and more how crucial a woman's influence is in the lives of her family members.  It's a lot of weight to carry.  Some days I want so bad to give in to my inner fury, annoyance, grumpiness, and frustration.  Today it was especially challenging for me to be that influence for good.  As soon as I am done fulfilling one person's needs, there is someone else in line, hanging on my leg until their need is fulfilled, and then the process repeat's itself.

I am not writing this post to simply complain (even though it feels really good).  I am writing it to remember.  I know there will be days in my future when I will badly miss day's like today.  I will miss my children being so dependent on me.  I will long for the time when I got to hold and bond with my sweet Saige every three hours on the dot. I will wish I could rewind time to when Hallie was 2 going on 10 and as fiery as humanly possible.  I will wish my hubby could stick home with me all day when he is sick instead of going to work, church, etc.  I will want to go back to when life was crazy with the chaos of raising young children.  To life when I was the very center of my children's world, and they lived for my every hug, smile, kiss, story, etc.  So, here are some fun things that Hallie has said recently.  I am dedicating them to my future self.

She is such a fireball.  We go to pick her up from date night at the church and what is the first thing she says to me once she is buckled in her car seat...

H-  "I hit T.  I hit Dax.  He sad.  Hi-Ya. (insert karate chop)  I step on T. (insert stomping motion)  That's naughty.  I mean."

Embarrassing.  I hope none of these things are true, but being that she was in timeout when we picked her up, I doubt it.

Today, she interrupts while Eric and I while we are talking...

H-  "Stop talking.  Stop talking."
Me-  "Yes Hallie?"
H-  "Guess what Mom?  I haf ooo tell you someting.  Jesus and the children!  And Jesus.  At the temple!  Wanna go?"

She can be so fisty, but then so incredibly sweet.  Tonight while trying to say prayers, she wouldn't stop dancing and running around, so Eric sat her on his lap and asked her...

E-  "Do you want to fold your arms or cross your fingers?  What do you want to do?"
H-  "I do the things the Lord commands."

One of my favorite things about her right now is that she thinks every prince is named Eric.  Infact, she doesn't ever use the word prince... they are all simply Eric's.

She does this absolutely adorable face every time she is using the potty.  It's eye and mouth as wide as possible, like "Can you believe this?" and then states "I'm so proud of you!"

Hallie's prayers are always the same, no matter when or where.  In fact, I catch her saying the same little prayer to herself lots of times throughout the day:

H-  "Heavenly Father.  Thank you mommy.  Amen."

We are trying to teach her to say "Yes, mam"  and "Yes, sir" when we ask her to do something.  She says, "Yes, man" for both.

She is so funny.  I love this little ball of energy that brings so much flavor to our life!

Saige is growing too fast and cuter every day.  Putting an infant on a schedule is demanding, but so worth it because she is so happy.  She is starting to smile and coo and I can't get enough of her.  The infant stage is going by too fast this time around!

So, hopefully when I am sad and lonely one day, wishing my grown kids were young again, I will read this post, remember the days of early motherhood, and smile.

Saige Brianne

She's here!!! 

January 20, 2011

1:53pm.

7 lbs. 10oz. 19 in.

Absolutely BEAUTIFUL!

I am seriously still on cloud 9... I love this little girl!!!  Life with Saige has been so wonderful.  My delivery was flawless, my recovery has been great, and she is such an easy baby.  Hallie loves her little sister.  Nothing makes me happier than to watch Hallie and Saige together. It makes my heart sing to see that special sister bond already forming.

Saige already sleeps 7+ hours at night.  I feel rested each morning and usually have to wake her up to feed her because I am about to explode.  (I LOVE BABYWISE!)  The transition from a family of 3 to 4 couldn't be going any smoother.  I thank the Lord every day for blessing me with two beautiful, healthy baby girls.  Being a mom is the most amazing experience and I am falling in love with it all over again.

Today is our first day home without any help.  It was so wonderful to first have my mom and then Eric's here.  Now real life kicks back in and I am so excited to get back into routine and see mi AMIGOS!!!

SLACKER!!!

I am a total blog slacker.  I am not going to even try to catch up on everything that has been going on because it would take way more time than I have.  Just know that Hallie turned 2, Christmas was great, and baby is only 9 days away!! I have been so busy preparing for her arrival.  These past 3 days we have been snowed in.  We got 6 inches of snow here in ATL and they are so not prepared for this kinda thing.  All the roads are covered in thick ice, so we have been staying inside, nice, warm, and bundled.  It's actually been really great to have Eric stuck inside with me to help me clean, clean, clean preparing for Saige.  Thanks to the snow, all of my projects that I hoped to complete before she came are finished!  YEE-HAW!  And now I patiently wait until it's time.  I am going to be induced sometime next week because of my diabetes, hopefully not til Friday which is my actual due date.  It will depend on how baby and I are doing.  I would really like to have this baby come on her own, so I am crossing my fingers and praying that I go into labor next Thursday evening after Eric is done with school.  I know it's a little picky, but that's most convenient for me, so Saige, let's start practicing obeying for mom please, and stay in there until then, okay  :)  Here are some fun pictures of us enjoying the snow, and next time I post should be announcing SAIGE!

 Hallie and Daddy practicing the lost art of ice-chunk karate.

 Frosty!

 Frosty with his creators.

Stuck on the middle

So, it's pretty much official...  baby's name will be Saige.  But now we are hung up on the middle name.  We want it to mean something.  Eric is completely set on Saige Brittany, naming her after me.  He is extremely determined to convince me, but I just feel a little weird naming her my exact name.  My middle name is my mom's name, Angella.  I would LOVE to use it, but it just doesn't flow to me.  We have thought of Saige Ann (Angella shortened) but to me it feels dull.  I think Siage Brianne (a combo of my first and middle name) flows, sounds good and is a good compromise, but Eric doesn't like it.  So you see, this is why I am starting a baby naming poll to your right... you tell me which one of all of the following family names you think Saige will like the best.  Thanks for your help everyone!!!

PS  We are open for any other suggestions too, even if it isn't a family name.  So feel free to leave a comment with something you like :)

Vaccines...

 http://www.infowars.net/articles/may2008/300508vaccines.htm

Okay, I know this is a touchy subject.  It seems I can't go ANYWHERE without mom's starting the vaccination debate.  When Hallie was born Eric and I were pretty torn about the whole "should we vaccinate" dilemma.  Truthfully, I didn't do the research to make an educated decision either way.  So, on her first Dr's visit, when the Dr left to send in the nurse, Eric and I said a prayer that she would be perfect and healthy no matter what.  Thankfully, that prayer has been answered, and since that day I have been trying to collect information on vaccinations.  Whatever decision you make with your children regarding vaccinations, I think it is SO SO SO important to be informed.  That way you can be completely confident in your choice.  Since doing the research on both sides, we have now decided not to vaccinate our children.  I want to share with all you mom's out there what I know and wish someone would have shared with me before I had Hallie.  The truth is, it is really, really easy to come across pro-vaccine information.  The other side is a little more tricky.  Why would anyone ever choose not to vaccinate???  The answers will shock you and, if anything, at least make you stop calling all of us who choose not to vaccinate CRAZIES!  Here are some GREAT credible resources that I have found that you can look into:

www.novaccine.com-  This website gives you tons of priceless information on vaccine ingredients, what specific vaccines are, the risks involved, etc.  Like I said, whatever decision you should make, KNOWING THESE FACTS IS IMPORTANT!


www.cogforlife.com-  One of the most upsetting things we learned about at a vaccine seminar Eric and I attended recently was that many vaccines are no longer being created from dead animal tissue but from aborted fetus's bought by our government with our tax $$$ from abortion clinics.  This website provides you with information on that subject, as well as what you can do to help stop this horrible practice.


www.mercola.com-  This website was created by Dr. Mercola with all sorts of fascinating articles from around the world on many medical issues, including vaccines, complied together for your information.


"Shots in the Dark"- I stole this info from a friends blog (thanks Krystle):  This is a documentary and you can find it on You Tube for FREE just by typing that into the title line. It's over an hour and FULL of information to help you see what is in the vaccines that is so harmful, and REAL life stories of people who have been harmed or had their lives taken by vaccines.

Also, some great books are "What the Pharmaceutical Companies Don't Want You to Know About Vaccines" by Dr. Todd Elsner DC and "Childhood Vaccinations" by Dr. Lauren Feder.

 I hope no one thinks I am judging them for choosing to vaccinate their children.  It is a really difficult and personal choice that no one can make except you.  So, find out the facts so you can make the choice that works for your family.